Contents

1. 53 Advices for Juliet
2. Facts
3. Foreword
4. Chapter 1. Test your heart by your mind
5. Chapter 2. Infecting by feelings
6. Chapter 3. Three types of relationships
7. Chapter 4. Subordinate relationships
8. Chapter 5. Overwhelming relationships
9. Chapter 6. Equal relationships
10. Chapter 7. Feelings and relationships
11. Chapter 8. Three reactions to love
12. Chapter 9. Heart cannot be ordered
13. Chapter 10. He is a fighter
14. Chapter 11. He is rich
15. Chapter 12. He is poor
16. Chapter 13. He is a vegetarian
17. Chapter 14. He is of different faith
18. Chapter 15. He is way older
19. Chapter 16. He is way younger
20. Chapter 17. He is from a different country
21. Chapter 18. He is more educated
22. Chapter 19. He is less educated
23. Chapter 20. He has a profession
24. Chapter 21. He has no profession
25. Chapter 22. He is from a higher class of society
26. Chapter 23. He is from a lower class of society
27. Chapter 24. He is of a different ethnicity
28. Chapter 25. He is of an ethnicity with higher status
29. Chapter 26. He is of a lower status ethnicity
30. Chapter 27. He was married
31. Chapter 28. He has children
32. Chapter 29. He cannot have children
33. Chapter 30. He is too different by height or weight
34. Chapter 31. He lives with his mother
35. Chapter 32. Everyone is against your relationship
36. Chapter 33. He is an addict
37. Chapter 34. He is sick
38. Chapter 35. He has a strong passion
39. Chapter 36. He has strange interests
40. Chapter 37. He doesn’t have a greater cause
41. Chapter 38. He is in search of himself
42. Chapter 39. He is also in other relationship
43. Chapter 40. He is unconventional
44. Chapter 41. He is a ugly
45. Chapter 42. He is handsome
46. Chapter 43. He is self-centered
47. Chapter 44. He is an altruist
48. Chapter 45. He is talented
49. Chapter 46. He considers himself as a unique chosen one
50. Chapter 47. He was in prison
51. Chapter 48. He doesn’t forgive
52. Chapter 49. He is either too fast, or too slow
53. Chapter 50. He is strong or weak
54. Chapter 51. He is dumb
55. Chapter 52. Combination of qualities
56. Chapter 53. The unbelievable
57. Afterword
58. The Author
59. Dear readers

But saying o’er what I have said before:

My child is yet a stranger in the world,

She hath not seen the change of fourteen years;

Let two more summers wither in their pride,

Ere we may think her ripe to be a bride.

“Romeo and Juliet”

William Shakespeare

Facts

Juliet was younger than fourteen years old.

We cherish first love equally as our life.

Destiny is created by strong emotions, but the most valuable thing in life is experience.

Foreword

I would have never written a book for girls that have fallen in love out of my own free will. Even such an idea would have never occurred to me on its own. However a mother of two daughters and a grandmother of a granddaughter of fourteen years asked me to do it. In the beginning she asked if I may give some recommendations and advices to a girl that has fallen in love. I have answered without preparation and my thoughts were to her liking. Therefore I promised her that I will write down these advices for her.

But during the first night I wasn’t able to fall asleep. Thoughts about the future book prevented me from doing so. More and more chapter titles were coming across my mind: “if the chosen one is older”, “if he is richer”, if he was at war”, “if he is self-centered”, or “if he doesn’t like children”.

Dear reader, do not judge me strictly. The subject turned out to be quite complicated, however I’m bound to speak about it in a simple manner. Though my suggestions are simplified to its limit, I do hope they are deep and wise.

This book is intended for those who believe in honest feelings and relationships, but doubt their reciprocity.

This book is for you, Juliets, if you are young, inexperienced, and on top of it, if your heart chose that one and only man for yourselves, with whom you would like to create nice and long lasting relationships and even later — a family, where children will come to be.

Chapter 1. Test your heart by your mind

You will never regret if you will keep checking your heart by your mind and your mind by your heart.

Are you captivated by feelings towards a person, but your mind is in contradiction with those feelings? Then stop! Something is off in here. Even a small break in a relationship will give you enough strength to control yourself and then make decisions mindfully.

Your feelings and mind contradict each other even after this kind of a break? Then make the break in relationship with such a person even longer. Search for the reason for this conflict between your mind and heart. Once you find it you will also uncover the reason that causes your relationship to keep fading away.

Maybe it will turn out that he is already married, but keeps hiding it. Or maybe he suffers from alcoholism but believes that he can stop drinking in a blink of an eye.

If you made a decision but your inner feelings prevent you from moving forward, then do not hurry with your actions. Maybe it is that your decision is not properly thought through. Maybe you’ve decided to leave your loved one but your feeling of pity prevents you from doing so. Or maybe you’ve set a plan to go for a trip together, but your inner fear keeps haunting you.

Chapter 2. Infecting by feelings

Under certain circumstances feelings can be imposed