Apologizing and Forgiving
Word Power
1. make a sincere apology
— принести искренние извинения
He made a sincere apology for missing the deadline.
Он принес искренние извинения за пропущенный дедлайн.
If you want to solve the conflict, you should make a sincere apology.
Если ты хочешь решить конфликт, тебе следует принести искренние извинения.
2. take full responsibility for
— полностью взять на себя ответственность за что-либо
She took full responsibility for the mistake in the report.
Она полностью взяла на себя ответственность за ошибку в отчёте.
It is important to take full responsibility for your actions.
Важно полностью брать ответственность за свои действия.
3. hold a grudge
— держать обиду, затаить обиду
He didn’t want to hold a grudge against his colleague.
Он не хотел держать обиду на коллегу.
Holding a grudge only creates more tension.
Затаённая обида только создаёт больше напряжения.
4. move on
— двигаться дальше, оставить ситуацию в прошлом
After their conversation, they decided to move on.
После разговора они решили двигаться дальше.
It’s healthier to forgive and move on.
Полезнее простить и двигаться дальше.
Reading Text
Conflicts are a natural part of both personal and professional relationships. Sooner or later, everyone makes mistakes. The real question is not whether we make mistakes, but how we react to them. Learning how to make a sincere apology and how to forgive others is an essential life skill.
A sincere apology involves more than simply saying “sorry.” It means taking full responsibility for your actions and understanding how they affected someone else. When a person takes full responsibility for a mistake, it shows maturity and respect. This makes it easier for the other person to accept the apology.
However, apologizing is only one side of the situation. Forgiveness is equally important. If someone continues to hold a grudge, the relationship cannot fully recover. Holding a grudge often leads to stress and negative emotions.
Forgiving does not mean forgetting what happened. It means choosing to move on instead of focusing on the past. In many cases, when both sides are willing to communicate honestly, make a sincere apology, and avoid holding a grudge, they can move on and even strengthen their relationship.
Check Your Understanding
What does a sincere apology involve?
Why is taking full responsibility important?
Why can holding a grudge damage a relationship?
What does it really mean to move on?
Do you think it is always easy to forgive? Why or why not?
Build Your Vocabulary
Exercise 1 — Multiple Choice
A sincere apology means:
a) saying “sorry” without explanation
b) blaming someone else
c) honestly accepting your mistake
d) ignoring the problem
If you take full responsibility for something, you:
a) deny your role
b) completely accept that it was your fault
c) hide the truth
d) blame circumstances
If you hold a grudge, you:
a) forgive quickly
b) forget the situation
c) keep negative feelings
d) solve the conflict
To move on means to:
a) continue thinking about the past
b) change the topic
c) leave the situation behind and continue
d) avoid communication
Exercise 2 — Matching
make a sincere apology
take full responsibility for
hold a grudge
move on
a) двигаться дальше
b) затаить обиду
c) принести искренние извинения
d) полностью взять ответственность за
Exercise 3 — Use It!
Complete the sentences using 2–3 expressions from Word Power.
After the argument, he decided to __________ and explain his mistake.
She didn’t want to __________, so she forgave her friend.
It takes courage to __________ your actions.
If both people are honest, they can __________ and improve their relationship.
Answer Key
Check Your Understanding — Sample Answers
It involves honestly accepting your mistake and understanding its impact.
Because it shows maturity and respect, and makes forgiveness easier.
Because it creates tension and prevents the relationship from recovering.
It means leaving the past behind and focusing on the future.
Sample answer: No, it is not always easy because emotions can be strong, especially if someone feels hurt.
Exercise 1
c) honestly accepting your mistake
b) completely accept that it was your fault
c) keep negative feelings
c) leave the situation behind and continue
Exercise 2
1 — c
2 — d
3 — b
4 — a
Exercise 3 — Sample Answers
After the argument, he decided to make a sincere apology and explain his mistake.
She didn’t want to hold a grudge, so she forgave her friend.
It takes courage to take full responsibility for your actions.
If both people are honest, they can move on and improve their relationship.