The Manifesto
I am me, and no one else.
I am not a victim of circumstances, not an echo of someone else’s expectations, and not a shadow of someone else’s decisions.
I am the source. The source of my energy, my strength, my life.
My life is my choice. My choice is my priority. And that priority — is always me.
I don’t make excuses for being anything less than I am. I don’t beg, I don’t plead, I don’t seek approval. I do not doubt, because I know: my worth is not up for discussion.
If someone steps onto my territory, I meet them with a gaze that holds peace — but also clearly shows my boundary.
I don’t shout, don’t tear my hair out, don’t explain myself.
I simply show where their space ends and mine begins.
And if someone doesn’t understand that — I smile.
I don’t waste energy on fighting. I simply make it known: here, where I am, everything is already decided.
I am not rude, not angry, not aggressive. I am clear as day.
I don’t rush, but I don’t stand still either.
I walk my path, steadily and calmly, because I know: each step is a part of my journey.
I don’t call people to follow me, but if someone chooses to — I will be glad.
I am the source.
Those who decide to walk beside me will do so with pride, not trying to overshadow my light.
I don’t gamble with my peace. I don’t tolerate unnecessary noise in my life.
I prioritize myself — my harmony, my worth, my truth.
I follow myself, and let this path be full of fire, brilliance, and light.
Let every step be confident.
Because if someone suddenly stands in my way — I will walk on, smiling.
Introduction
Maybe you’re already tired of people telling you how to live your life every single day. Society, friends, colleagues, relatives — everyone seems to know what’s best for you. «Be like everyone else.» «Don’t stand out.» «Don’t take risks.» «Do as you’re told.» «Don’t argue.» «Don’t even try — it won’t work anyway.» «Don’t dream; don’t have your head in the clouds.» All these phrases sound like spells trying to keep you within the boundaries set by others.
But what if I told you that the most important thing in life is learning how to say, «To hell with that!» to all those rules and other people’s opinions?
We all tend to worry about what others think of us. We’re afraid of looking weird, of being judged, of not fitting in. But the truth is, happiness isn’t about living by someone else’s script. Real happiness begins where other people’s opinions end. And if you’re ready to break free from that cycle and be yourself, then this book is for you.
Each of these 100 rules is a step toward true freedom. They will teach you to be strong, confident, and unafraid to defend your boundaries. This is real «weaponry» that will help you carve out your place in the sun. You’ll learn to say «no» to everything that limits you, and «yes» to everything that makes you stronger. You’ll grow stronger every day — and no one will stand in your way. Because now you’ll know how to say: «To hell with that!» to anyone who tries to dictate your life.
If you’re ready to smash through all the barriers and start living your own life, then keep reading. There’s no place here for doubt, weakness, or compromise. It’s just you — and your freedom.
Law 1. If you don’t like it, leave
We often endure bad jobs, toxic people, countries where freedom is suffocated, projects that lack life. Why? Because the system raises patient, compliant people. But the truth is that life is not about survival — it’s about choice. If you don’t like something, leave — not out of weakness, but out of respect for yourself. You’re not a tree. You’re not rooted in a place, a job, or among people who don’t respect you.
If everything inside you is screaming, «This isn’t right for me,» don’t ignore that voice. That is your inner truth, your strength. Leaving doesn’t mean showing weakness. It means declaring: «I deserve better.» The world is huge. There are oceans of opportunity. Why stay somewhere you’re not heard, not valued, not growing? You’re not obligated to be part of an environment that breaks you.
Every time you say «no» to what doesn’t suit you, you get closer to what you’ll love. Leave — and build something that lights you up every morning.
History is full of examples where the phrase «If you don’t like it — leave» wasn’t just a decision, but a turning point that changed people’s lives — or even the course of history. Albert Einstein left Germany in a hurry because the values he stood for were incompatible with the Nazi regime. Moving to the U.S., he gave up a prestigious career, but it was in exile that he became the Einstein the world knows today.
In 1985, Steve Jobs was fired from his own company, Apple, which he had founded. His ideas were deemed too radical, his style — too aggressive. It seemed like failure. But Jobs didn’t break. He walked away because he no longer saw the point in fighting for space that wasn’t given to him. And you know what he did? He founded NeXT, where he developed new ideas. He invested in and built up Pixar, which later released Toy Story and revolutionized animation. And 12 years later, he returned to Apple — and turned it into one of the most influential companies in human history.
Leaving is not the end. It’s the beginning of a new path. Just like Oprah Winfrey, who left an environment where she was humiliated and built her own empire. She grew up in poverty, endured abuse, but didn’t become a victim. She walked away from the toxic space where she was considered «nobody» — and became a voice for millions.
True leaders don’t cling to stability — they walk away to create their own freedom. India, once a colony, walked away from the British Empire. Gandhi came, and millions said, «Enough.» They didn’t tolerate. They chose freedom.
The rule «If you don’t like it — leave» isn’t a whim. It’s a choice — a choice to respect yourself, not to cling to toxicity, not to endure something just because «that’s how it’s done.»
If you’re already feeling uneasy — great! That means you’re being honest with yourself and realizing how many times you’ve broken this rule — and what it has cost you.
Law 2. You can die, but you can’t lose
As long as a person is alive, the game isn’t over, and losing is impossible. They may fall, make mistakes, face failures, pain, and loss — but the very possibility of changing the course of events remains. Life, by its nature, is a process, not a result. Defeat in life is impossible unless a person gives up internally. Even the hardest situation is not an ending but a transition — a chance to make a new choice.
True defeat does not come from the outside — it cannot be imposed. It is born within, when a person decides they will no longer fight, dream, or hope. Surrender is the moment a person stops believing in the possibility of change, in themselves, in the meaning of every new effort. It is a quiet agreement with hopelessness that renders them powerless, even if, outwardly, they continue to live. But as long as there is even a spark of desire in the heart to move forward, to seek, to build, to love — the person is undefeated.
Even among ruins, even in loneliness, even after all failures — if they choose to go on, they remain a player. And that means they can still win.
Law 3. Owes nothing to anyone
«Owe Nothing to Anyone» is about striving for self-sufficiency, not selfishness. It’s a position where a person does not want to depend on external resources — whether money, support, or help. They try to reach a point where, in any situation, they are not bound by obligations to other people. The goal is to stay as independent and free in your decisions and actions as possible.
But don’t take this principle too literally! In real life, it’s hard to follow completely, because social relationships and the economy are structured in such a way that interaction with others often involves certain obligations — be they material, emotional, or legal.
People who adhere to this principle are less likely to end up in situations where they can be manipulated or exploited due to debts or duties. A «debt» in this context is not necessarily financial — it can be a moral or social debt. For example, if someone helps you and later expects you to return the favor, you may feel that you depend on that person and can’t make your own decisions without considering those obligations.
Ignoring this principle can have unpleasant consequences.
In Hollywood history, Marilyn Monroe was known for frequently finding herself dependent on producers and men who helped her build her career. For example, producers like Joseph Schenck and Darryl F. Zanuck offered her roles and opportunities, but in return, she had to comply with their demands — both professionally and personally. This created a sense of dependence on these men, which ultimately became part of
